Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Your Budget and the Power of Fives

Do you feel like you are always out of money? If so, you are a lot like nearly everybody else. Interestingly there is one thing you can do that will practically guarantee you more spending money: Make a simple budget and stick to it. I will share with you some simple steps in a moment, but first let me assure you that this is the best time of the year to talk to you about budgeting. There are several reasons for that.

For starters, most of us are feeling more financial pressure right now because of the holidays. The bills are headed your way and you may not be able to pay everything in-full and on-time. Just as damning, the IRS is counting the days until April 15th, and waiting for us to help pay the country’s bills. And you are probably thinking about the warmer days of summer on the horizon and considering upgrading a car or some home improvements or a vacation. Throw in a few uncertainties about the economy in general and most of us are a bit weary of our financial woes. A simple, but solid budget can go a long way toward improving your lifestyle.

Here are some good steps to take for budgeters of all sizes

1) Do some homework – You are undoubtedly going to scan your checkbook and credit card statements for tax deductions very soon, so take this opportunity to double your purpose. Look at each and every expenditure of the past year and list them all in some basic categories: A dozen of the more common ones would be: Tithing, Saving, Home mortgage and maintenance, Utilities, Fixed payments such as auto loan, Auto gas and maintenance, Insurance, Vacation, Groceries, Medical, Entertainment, and Miscellaneous. If you find this last category to include quite a few things, you can break it down further. Additional categories might be cable TV packages, the kid’s allowance, lawn care and the like.
2) Don’t Forget The Cash - Do you pull out some spending money when you deposit your check? Do you drop by the ATM to get some operating capital? Tmason does. When you write a check at the grocery store, do you write it for a little over the purchase amount and pocket the difference? Do you cash the smaller checks that you get from time to time rather than depositing them into your account? No budget would be accurate without identifying these items. In fact there is a good chance that these dollars are just floating off into the cosmos somewhere. We will fix that in a moment. For now, swallow hard and write down you best guess of how much this category equals in a year.
3) Income - How much income do you earn each year? Consider all of the income from reliable sources.
4) Reconcile - Okay, it is the moment of truth. Do the math. Are your expenses more than your income or is it the other way around?
5) The Outcome - If you have more income than you spend, then you live within your means, and you deserve a pat on the back. That is good, but it may not be good enough. I know people in this group who waste incredible amounts of money. Those people can also benefit from prudent budgeting, then they can save and invest the residuals. The rest of us are unable to pay off credit card bills each month. That lifestyle carries with it a very heavy financial burden. The interest consumers pay for those cards (and any other debt such as car loans) is money they could be spending or saving and investing. Either one will enhance their life styles.

Once you have an accurate handle on your situation, it is time to find out where you can make improvements that will improve your lifestyle – in the long run. Here are 5 things “To do”.

1) Make a plan – Write down how much money you really NEED for your bills. Then add the items that you don’t particularly need, but are fairly important to you. i.e. one dinner out every 10 days, an upgraded cell phone package, a boat, etc. x Allow for some, but not all, of the things you would like. You should have a spending allowance and some money for an emergency fund. By allowing yourself certain regular but structured indulgences, they become something to look forward to rather than one fleeting impulse after the other, which collectively carry costly long-term consequences.
2) Keep score – You cannot be sure how you are doing unless you keep score. It is important to know what you are trying to do and what you are trying not to do. It is not overly difficult. Once every month after you pay your bills, repeat the exercise we did earlier: Write down all of your income and expenses then compare to see how you are doing. If adjustments are needed, it is a lot easier to do it sooner rather than later.
3) Start trimming some fat – when you have a good overview of your finances, it is fairly common for some glaring problems to hit you in the face. For example, one fellow I know was shocked to find out how much he spent in bars. He immediately cut back on buying so many drinks for his friends. You might find that you go to dinner quite a bit, or you buy tools that you don’t need or you spend $2,000 per year on fancy TV cable packages. All of these offer changes you can make to hang on to more of your money.
4) Cut down on impulsive cash purchases – By using your check book or credit cards for all of your purchases, you will not have missing money. If you have an absolute need for carrying around cash, get some envelopes and put a weekly allowance in them. Once the envelopes are empty, do not run over to the ATM or anywhere else to resolve your liquidity problem. It is okay to take a small amount from you “emergency” envelope, but do not sneak out and get new cash. At first you may be tempted to subsidize your impulsive purchases with your checkbook or credit card, but this will be obvious the next month when you review your budget so you will have an opportunity to notice and modify your behavior; but, if you just keep throwing cash in the wind it is nearly impossible to get an idea just how serious the problem is, let alone fix it. You are at a critical crossroad. Take the correct path now and you will have enormous rewards later, when you are out of debt.
5) Swallow your pride – If it is necessary to sell your boat or buy a smaller home, then go do it without concern for what others might think. If you don’t make smart adjustments on your own, you may never get out of debt or might even end up losing it all. By implementing good judgment now, you will be able to raise your lifestyle even more at a later time.

Your “Do not” list also has 5 good tips.

1) Do not panic - There is a way out, no matter how bad your situation is, so pproach the entire ordeal with logic, not emotion. It does no good to get overly upset about it. That negative energy is not good for your health or the other people around you. Besides, there are millions of people, including four past presidents, who have filed for bankruptcy or lost a home in foreclosure. Furthermore, there are laws in place to assist people to get back on their feet so forgive yourself from the past and start making smarter choices that will lead to a more productive life.
2) Do not make impulsive purchases – Some people derive importance from buying things on the spot. It is as if to say, “I am successful and I can buy anything I want.” Well, who cares? This may be one of the habits that got you in trouble in the first place. It is okay to spend money here and there, provided it comes from a defined account for that purpose, but buying an endless chain of unnecessary goodies is stupid, not a sign of success.
3) Do not take on more debt – If you cannot pay off all of your credit cards and other bills in-full and on-time every month, you are living beyond your means. One of the worst things you can do is compound your problem by pulling out your credit card or buying a new car. Resist the temptation to take on a new credit card so that you can transfer balances to a lower rate. That new line of credit may just serve as an additional source of temptation to buy even more stuff. Furthermore, new accounts lower your credit scores and can lead to all sorts of problems including getting your insurance rates raised.
4) Do not refinance your home – Financially challenged people tend to see the equity in their homes as a source of funds to pay off other bills. That is foolish and very dangerous. Subsidizing frivolous spending habits in this way merely serves to enable you to live beyond your means and drive yourself further into debt. If you find yourself saddled with so much debt that you cannot reasonably expect to pay it off within 30 months, then you may be forced into refinancing but this should only be employed after you have abided by the budgeting practices we have already discussed. Once you have established good habits you are less likely to see all of those paid off credit cards as an invitation to revisit the same old bad habits. If you intend to stay in your home for a few years it is okay to refinance, provide you reduce your interest rate by one percent or more. But do not be tempted to pull cash out unless it is to be used for safe investments which bring in more income than the interest expense on the new debt.
5) Do not spend all of the windfalls- When you get one of your credit cards paid off of a car paid off, do not run out and spend that money. The same thing when you get a raise. Do not spend it all. I suggest you use half of it to increase your standard of living slightly and the other half to pay down other debts even faster.

If you are not able to pay off your credit cards on-time and in-full every month then you are living beyond your means and spending money on interest which could be going to enhancing your lifestyle. Your goal should be to get into that situation within a reasonable period of time, say 2 to 3 years. If you are living within your means, as defined, then your goal should be to accumulate funds, which you can invest for passive income. By accumulating additional income, you are destined to enjoy all sorts of new benefits and that is the purpose of this entire conversation.

One of my favorite budgeting tools is available through Mvelopes. It is an on-line version of the traditonal envelope sysptem of budgeting.

Another popular monetary tool is an on-line checking account. One of the well know spots is held by ING Direct.

Finally, you can get many other budgeting tools from Dave Ramsey. His site is here.


Your thoughts are invited

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7 comments:

  1. We've done everything you've said here for 8 years now, and it's keeping us out of major trouble. Money is still a challenge though, mostly due to kids. Our kids cost us around $25,000 per year (2 kids), and that's including tax write-offs and cheap daycare. Ever heard of Planned Parenthood? I'll bet most people don't PLAN the FINANCIAL part of having kids. Of course they are worth it, but factoring in whether or not the next child will significantly reduce the entire family's standard of living is a prudent exercise.

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  2. I sometimes wonder when people make statements like "another child will reduce the entire family's standard of living." That's a statement that needs to be qualified. What standard of living are we talking about? There's a great difference between choosing not to have another child because it would mean the rest of the family has less to eat, and choosing not to have a child because it would mean there would be no cable, no eating out, and no summer vacations. Life can't always be planned, even when you're actively trying to do so. Sometimes you have to just do the best with what you have and hope. I think it can lead to dangerous roads when human life is viewed in terms of money, rather than potential for good (I'm not saying you were doing that, I'm just saying in general.) I'm thankful every single day that some women make silly mistakes when they're young and have children they can't afford, because my husband is one of those people. He's the best person I'll ever know, and he definitely wasn't planned.

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  3. So should we never plan families? Should we forego birth control? Should we use the "rhythym method" which categorically doesn't work? Should we abstain? Should we all be John & Kate + 8 and have as many children as possible? Should we cancel our cable, eating out, and summer vacations, and replace them with another child? Should we reduce our standard of living to the third world and have 12 kids running around with the chickens? Should we "hope" that we can feed the pack of children running around, or should we plan on how much it's going to cost to properly feed the ones we will have? If all life has the potential for good, shouldn't we create as much life as possible? We're at 6 billion, how many is enough? 60 billion? 600 billion? You're thankful for Chris' mother making a silly mistake, should we teach young women in high school to make the same silly mistakes so that more Sharons in the world can be thankful? What dangerous roads are we led to when analyzing whether or not we can afford a larger family?

    You can't separate the value of human life and money. It costs a certain amount to provide a person food, clothing, and shelter. Those commodities don't fall out of the sky, people provide them. Those people will cease to provide if they aren't compensated. So I ask again, what "dangerous" road am I travelling with this line of thought?

    Did you really think about my statement, or did you just have a visceral response to the mention of "Planned Parenthood"? Are you confusing pre-planning a family and post-pregnancy actions like abortion? Or are you equating the two? Obviously you are anti-abortion, but are you against family planning, including making the financial decision to have a child or not based on the welfare of the entire unit?

    My statement doesn't need to be qualified, it stands on it's own, and if you disagree with the statement, try saying "I disagree". It's much more genuine than the platitudinous statement "I sometimes wonder when . . .". Do you really "sometimes wonder" about statements like that, or do you just flat out disagree? Where is it that you do this wondering? On the potty? Daydreaming in class?

    A last thought: When budgeting, emotional considerations and "hopes" need to take a backseat to reality. It's not realistic to plan on saving $5000 in a year by not having any recreation money. Abstinence, while noble in some circles, isn't realistic, it denies human nature. You must plan on what you think you will ACTUALLY DO, not some lofty goal that can't possibly be reached. Otherwise your budgeting exercise is doomed to failure.

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  4. Chris is indeed a fine fellow, and ir is easy to see why you are grateful for one particular "silly mistake" but that does not justify other "silly mistakes" In fact, "silly mistakes" are more commonly visited upon those who can least afford to provide for their offspring. I suspect the percentage of "silly mistakes" that rise to Chris's level in society is very small.

    While it is true that human life is priceless in a philosophical or religious sense,in the real world it costs an average of over $85,000 to get a child through high school. The person who disregards that finacial responisbility in favor of gratifying the loins is selfish.

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  5. I'm not arguing that no one should ever plan when they have children or decide whether or not they can afford them. However, it is a fact that even when people try to avoid having children (such as undergoing surgery) that having children is still possible. Planning will only take a person so far. Life is unpredictable, and rather than focusing on the financial burdens and strains unpredictable people cause on society and families, I think it's better to see the good that comes of unplanned children. I'm sure I'll be painted as naiive and irresponsible, but that is what I earnestly believe. Talking of human beings as if they are burdens can lead to the belief that these burdens should be "relieved" or gotten rid of. While no one here was advocating that, I am pointing out a fact that the way in which we think and speak has ramifications for how people act. You're right to point out that it is a fact that human beings cost money; all I'm arguing for is that people not equate human beings with their monetary value first, because that demeans human life. And if that makes me a crazy Catholic who is totally irresponsible and out of touch with reality, well, then I'll just have to take that.

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  6. This article was about general budgeting but it morphed into a discussion about rug rats. In that situation it seems to me that we all agree on the obvious major points: 1)It is prudent to consider the financial ramifications of having children than to ignore those issues 2) There are people who ignore this responsibility but their children still have value. 3) and i am wonderful. please send your donations to Bringbackthehoolahoop.com.

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  7. Now you're talking some sense Sharon. Crazy Catholic out of touch with reality.

    I had a similiar conversation with a crazy woman about insurance. When I had children, I raised my life insurance policy to $500,000. She scolded me for not getting a larger policy, arguing, "your family is only worth $500,000 to you?"

    I proceeded to use a common logic exercise to rebut her argument: when a problem seems difficult to grasp, try going to the absolute extremes in both directions and see what happens, sometimes it works. In this example, I said, "well what if I raise my policy to $100,000,000? How much would the premiums be? I don't remember the answer, but the point is that it was more than I made, so I wouldn't have any money for food, clothing, or anything else. Obviously silly, so you have to strike a balance between what you can afford and what you are willing to risk.

    Like it or not, we all have pricetags on our heads. If I die tonight, around $600,000 will find it's way to Heather and the kids. So I'm worth $600,000. You're young so you may not think you are worth much, but don't forget that you'll make great compost for some flowers someday.

    I understand that you believe that equating people with money in some conversations might condition people to consider abortion or murder. I think this thought is a stretch, the types of people who would be so easily persuaded are the ones that wouldn't financially plan for children and would consider abortion anyway.

    If you happen to start losing your "hope", just remember the personal enrichment you have received from the glow of my aura.

    Bringbackthehoolahoop.com doesn't work. Thanks for making me waste 25 seconds trying to see it Dave.

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